vmsig: management daemon, runtime endpoint lifecycle, roster, discovery, in-tree drivers, packaging

- core: runtime attach/detach of a per-endpoint adapter trio (runtime-safe add_adapter + vmsig_core_detach_endpoint, deferred reap)
- roster: VMSIG_EV_ROSTER + CAP_ROSTER, retained per-endpoint and replayed to late subscribers
- discovery: inotify trigger dir, vmid/endpoint slot allocator, host probe; vmsigd daemon with config + per-uid admission
- input driver and vgpu perception built in-tree; vgpu perception as a separate library
- memctx: own the supplied ro_fd (closed at detach)
- deb packaging: install rules, systemd unit, tmpfiles, default config

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