Replace EXTRA_DIST with dist_noinst_DATA

The EXTRA_DIST variable is ignored when used in the FALSE conditional
of a Makefile.am.  This results in the `make dist` target omitting
these files from the generated tarball unless CONFIG_USER is defined.
This issue can be avoided by switching to use the dist_noinst_DATA
variable which is handled as expected by autoconf.

This change also adds support for --with-config=dist as an alias
for --with-config=srpm and updates the GitHub workflows to use it.

Reviewed-by: Ahelenia Ziemiańska <nabijaczleweli@nabijaczleweli.xyz>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #13459
Closes #13505

scripts/Makefile.am

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ dist_scripts_SCRIPTS = \
 	%D%/zimport.sh \
 	%D%/zloop.sh
 
-EXTRA_SCRIPTS = \
+dist_noinst_SCRIPTS = \
 	%D%/commitcheck.sh \
 	%D%/common.sh.in \
 	%D%/dkms.mkconf \
@@ -18,14 +18,13 @@ EXTRA_SCRIPTS = \
 	%D%/paxcheck.sh \
 	%D%/zfs-tests-color.sh
 
-EXTRA_DIST += \
+dist_noinst_DATA += \
 	%D%/cstyle.pl \
 	%D%/enum-extract.pl \
 	%D%/zfs2zol-patch.sed \
-	%D%/zol2zfs-patch.sed \
-	$(EXTRA_SCRIPTS)
+	%D%/zol2zfs-patch.sed
 
-SHELLCHECKSCRIPTS += $(dist_scripts_SCRIPTS) $(EXTRA_SCRIPTS)
+SHELLCHECKSCRIPTS += $(dist_scripts_SCRIPTS) $(dist_noinst_SCRIPTS)
 
 define SCRIPTS_EXTRA_ENVIRONMENT