Add ashift validation when adding devices to a pool

Currently, zpool add allows users to add top-level vdevs that have
different ashifts but doing so prevents users from being able to
perform a top-level vdev removal. Often times consumers may not realize
that they have mismatched ashifts until the top-level removal fails.

This feature adds ashift validation to the zpool add command and will
fail the operation if the sector size of the specified vdev does not
match the existing pool. This behavior can be disabled by using the -f
flag. In addition, new flags have been added to provide fine-grained
control to disable specific checks. These flags
are:

--allow-in-use
--allow-ashift-mismatch
--allow-replicaton-mismatch

The force flag will disable all of these checks.

Reviewed by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed by: Alexander Motin <mav@FreeBSD.org>
Reviewed-by: Mark Maybee <mmaybee@delphix.com>
Signed-off-by: George Wilson <gwilson@delphix.com>
Closes #15509

include/sys/spa.h

@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@
  */
 /*
  * Copyright (c) 2005, 2010, Oracle and/or its affiliates. All rights reserved.
- * Copyright (c) 2011, 2021 by Delphix. All rights reserved.
+ * Copyright (c) 2011, 2024 by Delphix. All rights reserved.
  * Copyright 2011 Nexenta Systems, Inc.  All rights reserved.
  * Copyright (c) 2014 Spectra Logic Corporation, All rights reserved.
  * Copyright 2013 Saso Kiselkov. All rights reserved.
@@ -785,7 +785,7 @@ extern int bpobj_enqueue_free_cb(void *arg, const blkptr_t *bp, dmu_tx_t *tx);
 #define	SPA_ASYNC_DETACH_SPARE			0x4000
 
 /* device manipulation */
-extern int spa_vdev_add(spa_t *spa, nvlist_t *nvroot);
+extern int spa_vdev_add(spa_t *spa, nvlist_t *nvroot, boolean_t ashift_check);
 extern int spa_vdev_attach(spa_t *spa, uint64_t guid, nvlist_t *nvroot,
     int replacing, int rebuild);
 extern int spa_vdev_detach(spa_t *spa, uint64_t guid, uint64_t pguid,