Fix BLAKE3 tuneable and module loading on Linux and FreeBSD

Apply similar options to BLAKE3 as it is done for zfs_fletcher_4_impl.

The zfs module parameter on Linux changes from icp_blake3_impl to
zfs_blake3_impl.

You can check and set it on Linux via sysfs like this:
```
[bash]# cat /sys/module/zfs/parameters/zfs_blake3_impl
cycle [fastest] generic sse2 sse41 avx2

[bash]# echo sse2 > /sys/module/zfs/parameters/zfs_blake3_impl
[bash]# cat /sys/module/zfs/parameters/zfs_blake3_impl
cycle fastest generic [sse2] sse41 avx2
```

The modprobe module parameters may also be used now:
```
[bash]# modprobe zfs zfs_blake3_impl=sse41
[bash]# cat /sys/module/zfs/parameters/zfs_blake3_impl
cycle fastest generic sse2 [sse41] avx2
```

On FreeBSD the BLAKE3 implementation can be set via sysctl like this:
```
[bsd]# sysctl vfs.zfs.blake3_impl
vfs.zfs.blake3_impl: cycle [fastest] generic sse2 sse41 avx2
[bsd]# sysctl vfs.zfs.blake3_impl=sse2
vfs.zfs.blake3_impl: cycle [fastest] generic sse2 sse41 avx2 \
  -> cycle fastest generic [sse2] sse41 avx2
```

This commit changes also some Blake3 internals like these:
- blake3_impl_ops_t was renamed to blake3_ops_t
- all functions are named blake3_impl_NAME() now

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Co-authored-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Signed-off-by: Tino Reichardt <milky-zfs@mcmilk.de>
Closes #13725

include/os/freebsd/spl/sys/mod_os.h

@@ -31,10 +31,6 @@
 
 #include <sys/sysctl.h>
 
-#define	EXPORT_SYMBOL(x)
-#define	module_param(a, b, c)
-#define	MODULE_PARM_DESC(a, b)
-
 #define	ZMOD_RW CTLFLAG_RWTUN
 #define	ZMOD_RD CTLFLAG_RDTUN
 
@@ -98,6 +94,9 @@
 #define	fletcher_4_param_set_args(var) \
     CTLTYPE_STRING, NULL, 0, fletcher_4_param, "A"
 
+#define	blake3_param_set_args(var) \
+    CTLTYPE_STRING, NULL, 0, blake3_param, "A"
+
 #include <sys/kernel.h>
 #define	module_init(fn) \
 static void \